There is something to be said for Oprah being one of the most influential women in the world.
Today on and episode about women finding out their spouses have secrets, she
references a lesson by Maya Angelou in which she says,
"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them."
Oprah elaborates by saying that once someone lies, accept them as a liar. Once someone cheats, accept them as someone with the capability to cheat again, etc.
If only more women could accept that, I feel like everyone would be a little bit stronger and a little bit happier.